Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Why? (The Answer)

Tonight I watched "Martian Child" with Denzell and Dayton.  It is a movie that I had never let any of the kids watch.  Some of the foster care themes are a little too fresh for many of my kids and we don't need a set back.  Those two had really helped me a lot today while I had a headache, so I had let them stay up extra late.  Both of them are thoroughly rooted and I thought it would be a good time to let them enjoy the movie as well. 

That movie rings true in so many ways for me.  I couldn't begin to tell you the tears that come to my eyes while he waits to hear if he will be given the opportunity to parent the child that he already has come to love.  I get chills when he gets the call that says he can be his parent.  I totally relate to those awkard moments of trying to figure out how much to open or close the door.  I could talk about all of that tonight, but I won't.  I won't even go into the ridiculousness (is that a word?  lol) of the system that has left me waiting endlessly for my little Cody to come home.

 I do want to talk about the big TRUTH in the movie.  At the end of the movie the little broken hearted boy looks into the eyes of his father and asks "Why?".  He wants to know why parents don't stay.  He wants to know why he has been rejected over and over.  He wants to know why the world saw no value in him.  Then comes the truth from the dad . . . . "they are STUPID". 

That is the truth.  In this world children are neglected, rejected, and set aside because adults are STUPID.  Children wait tonight in foster homes feeling unloved and afraid of what tomorrow will hold because people are STUPID.  Children sit in the cribs all day in orphanages unloved, hungry, and not even knowing what their world should be like because adults are STUPID. 

God gave all of us these amazing gifts!  CHILDREN ARE A GIFT - EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM!  They are thrown away in our society daily.  They are aborted, abandoned, abused, neglected, and discounted because our whole adult world is STUPID.  How will all of the adults stand before God some day and account for their STUPIDITY?  How will they justify to God their inaction?  I really don't know.  I can't imagine standing there and saying "but they weren't my responsibility",  "I didn't do that to them", "I didn't give birth to them", " I didn't have time", "I had MY own children", or whatever other lame excuses people have planned. 

As long as children are hurting we are being held responsible.   The Bible talks about "the least of these".  The Bible talks specifically about Jesus's love for children and His words about them and their care.  The Bible tells us that "true undefiled religion" is taking care of the orphans.  What more words do people need to make them know it is their responsibility?  What more do they need to make them act? 

I know this, I will not stand before Him and account for my inaction.  I will stand before Him knowing that I did every thing that I could.  If what you can do is "give", then do it.  If what you can do is "advocate" then get to it.  If what you can do is "adopt" then hurry.  Ask God what your part is today.  Don't TELL Him what your part should be, because you will account to Him some day.  If you need a place to start figuring out how to do your part then please feel free to click on  my links for Reece's Rainbow.  They have a part that each one can play.  DON'T BE STUPID!


  1. Thanks Gina! I'm thinking it may have been a bit BOLD for what most would like to hear. Forunately, I don't care and I felt a lot better after I got it off my chest. lol

  2. I included an article on my blog today which basically states for evil to triumph all you have to do is do nothing. Very similar, thanks for writing and for sharing.

    Love finds a way,

  3. I loved your post. I love it when people speak the truth boldly!! It's something I'm praying for more courage to do more of the time.


  4. Way to go girl! Tell it like it is.

  5. "I know this, I will not stand before Him and account for my inaction. I will stand before Him knowing that I did every thing that I could." Amen on that!!

    Father, please bring in all the resources needed in Jesus name.